Hi, I’m Hanan Parvez, from the beautiful Kashmir valley in the Himalayas of South Asia. I studied engineering as my undergraduate major and have two master’s degrees—Psychology and Marketing.
As an engineer interested in the workings of the mind, I can’t help but think of the mind as a machine, an instrument, a tool. When people buy their machines and gadgets, they may not know how to use them initially. But, over time, they learn from their mistakes and might even end up becoming experts.
The human mind is somewhat similar. We’re born with this machine between our ears, having no clue about how it operates. Over time, we more or less get a handle on it, but most of us aren’t able to master it because it’s undoubtedly the most complex machine there is. PsychMechanics is like an instruction manual that will help you understand your mind’s nuts and bolts.
What sparked my interest in human behavior
When I was in school, I read a chapter in my English class taken from The Adventures of Tom Sawyer where Tom convinces his friend to whitewash a fence even though the latter was initially unwilling to do so. I was fascinated by how people could be influenced that way. It planted in me the idea that the human mind could be tampered with and tweaked to achieve desired outcomes. I wanted to learn more.
Another spark was this Body language book I found in my dad’s cupboard. I had a habit of going through my dad’s cupboard, searching for books to read. This book blew my mind, and I even showed it to my friends at school to see what they thought of it. Most of them shared my fascination.
The birth
When I finished school, like many others, I was lost and didn’t know what I wanted to do in life. Doctor and Engineer seemed like the only two career options kids had in our locality. I was mildly interested in Engineering, so I opted for it. In my first year of Engineering, I decided this wasn’t what I wanted to spend the rest of my life doing. I was a good student and breezed through my engineering course, but I knew it wasn’t something that made me feel alive, you know.
I started re-evaluating my life and trying to figure out what really made me tick. I came across this website that said if you want to turn your interest into a passion, invest in it. It basically said if you like X, then study more about X. I knew I liked Psychology, but I was hesitant to take it as a career option because its job market didn’t look that promising. Still doesn’t, as many would attest. So, I decided to stay in Engineering and pursue Psychology as a hobby.
During that time, I learned amazing things about human psychology and felt like I should publish them somewhere. This could help me in two ways: First, you learn things better when you write them down and explain them to others. Second, it had the potential to become a revenue source. Two birds with one stone!
Update 1: As I've gotten to know myself better, I understand that the main reason I pursued this career option was because it helps me hit two of my primary core values- freedom and growth at the same time. Again, two birds with one stone.
Lo and behold, PsychMechanics was born in August 2014. I was in my final year of Engineering at the time.
The growth
I come from a conflict-ridden zone between India and Pakistan. Political turmoil, protests, strikes, and communication lockdowns are common where I hail from. By communication lockdown, I mean no internet services for days and sometimes even months. Imagine that!
This was the biggest challenge for me, and I knew I had to overcome this obstacle if I wanted to go anywhere with my blogging career.
In 2016, two years into blogging and still trying to wrap my head around what I was doing, the situation worsened in our area. Luckily, a friend convinced me to apply for an MBA outside the state. I knew that Marketing was 90% psychology, so I thought I’d enjoy studying it, and I did.
Remember, I still couldn’t apply directly to Psychology because it isn’t considered a viable career option. And I didn’t have much to show for blogging-wise either.
I left the valley and headed for New Delhi to pursue an MBA and continued working on my blog with no disruptions in internet services. Soon after, there was a month-long internet shutdown in our valley.
I finished my MBA in 2018 and got placed in this company as an Academic Writer in Marketing. I like learning and writing, so I figured I’d only grow in this kind of environment.
I learned a lot in the first two months, but after that, I realized the company cared more about output than providing a learning environment- output at the cost of lost learning opportunities and employee well-being.
Around that time, this blog was beginning to take off. I had to make a tough decision. I could stay at the company and make good money at the cost of my freedom and well-being with little time for the blog or I could quit the job and give more time to the blog. I quit the job. I just couldn’t stand the idea of spending years of my life being miserable.
When I quit the job, I finally took up an MA in Psychology while also working as a freelance Academic Writer for the company I’d quit. Working as a freelancer is so much better than a regular job. You have more time and freedom to pursue other interests.
Update 2: I bagged a research fellowship in Psychology and will soon be applying to PhD programs.
I’m a strong believer in making learning fun and easy. It makes knowledge accessible to people who don’t necessarily want to plow through 500-paged tomes. Degrees, diplomas, titles, and experiences don’t mean anything if you can’t stimulate the minds of your students.
The study of the human mind has become the biggest fascination of my life, and this site is a collection of the best I know, explained in the best way I’ve deemed possible. It’s like a torch that you can use to shed light on the darkest corners of the human mind. I sincerely hope it becomes your go-to place when it comes to understanding matters of the mind. That’s the vision that I have for it.
Update 3: I decided not to go with the PhD after reading some horror stories of PhD scholars on Quora. I now make a full-time living doing what I love- creating Psychology-related content.
Qualifications
- Bachelors in Engineering, University of Kashmir
- MBA (Marketing), JMI
- MA (Psychology), IGNOU
Other interests
- Playing the piano, violin, and electric guitar
- Listening to music
- Watching psychological thrillers
- Playing sports and games (all kinds)
- Fitness
Featured In
Media mentions:
- 3 body language tricks to appear more powerful – Business Insider
- 10 Motivational Habits That Drive Millionaires – Entrepreneur
- 12 Mistakes You’re Making When Trying To Strike Up A Conversation With Someone New – Bustle
- 15 Secret Signs You’re Actually Insecure – Reader’s Digest
- People Share 30 Signs Of Intelligence In People Who Don’t Realize How Smart They Are – Bored Panda
- These 11 Sitting Positions Can Reveal Your Personality – The Epoch Times
- Body language to know if a person is attracted to you – Marie Claire
- 8 Ways To Become Familiar With Someone – The Good Men Project
- Elon Musk mocked over ‘bizarre’ Taylor Swift tweets – New York Post
Scholarly citations:
- Ganci, A. (2016). Unhappy Childhoods. Accept Your Past, Create Your Future. Youcanprint.
- Myers, J., Kimble, M., & Levinson, J. C. (2023). Guerrilla Marketing Volume 3: Advertising and Marketing Definitions, Ideas, Tactics, Examples, and Campaigns to Inspire Your Business Success. Morgan James Publishing.
- Oshio, A. (2018). Who shake their legs and bite their nails? Self-reported repetitive behaviors and big five personality traits. Psychological Studies, 63(4), 384-390.
- Heavilin, B. A., & Hicks, W. K. (2022). Editor’s Column: A Master of Liminal Spaces: The Mind of John Steinbeck. Steinbeck Review, 19(1), vi-xii.
- Sy, A. N., Yson, M. L. B., Gavino, N., Leon, M. W. D., Ocampo, J., & Calilung, F. C. (2019). When politics is more than words: a hermeneutic analysis of Freudian psychoanalytic elements among selected Philippine presidential state of the nation addresses (SONA). Advances in Social Sciences Research Journal, 6(10), 384-402.
- Chen, G., Peng, J., Zhang, W., Huang, K., Cheng, F., Yuan, H., & Huang, Y. (2021). A Region Group Adaptive Attention Model For Subtle Expression Recognition. IEEE Transactions on Affective Computing.
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