What does it mean to be emotionally unavailable?

emotionally unavailable man

Emotional unavailability is defined as the inability to form an emotional connection with another person. Emotional connection leads to emotional intimacy and is a big part of connecting with others. A lack of emotional connection in all kinds of relationships reduces the quality of those relationships, making a relationship breakdown more likely. Emotional unavailability is

How to stop overthinking everything

overthinking everything

Overthinking is getting stuck in repetitive thought loops about a problem or a situation in a way that is unproductive and leads to negative emotions like overwhelm, fear, anxiety, and depression. When you’re thinking about something too much, you can’t think about the other things, so your life gets derailed. This is why overthinking is

Sociopath vs Psychopath: 35 Key Differences

Related: Sociopath vs Psychopath test Sociopath: Definition and meaning A sociopath, also called a secondary psychopath, is someone with Antisocial Personality Disorder (ASPD). They’re likely to engage in antisocial acts where they harm others. Their aggression is both reactive and instrumental. Reactive aggression is aggression due to an emotional reaction, such as anger. Instrumental aggression

What is an Avoidant Attachment style

avoidant child

Attachment style refers to one’s style of relating or connecting with others, especially romantic partners. Based on attachment theory, attachment styles provide a valuable framework for understanding how people behave in relationships. There are two main types of attachment styles- secure and insecure. Insecure attachment is further classified into three subtypes: Avoidant attachment style is

Psychology of being judgmental

woman getting judged

Humans need to evaluate the world to navigate it effectively and meet their goals. Not everything in the world has equal value. If that were the case, humans would not be judgmental—there’d be no need to. The fundamental reason humans are naturally judgmental is that things in the world have unequal value.  To meet their

Am I burnt out or depressed? Quiz

burnt out versus depressed state

Burnout and depression are similar emotional states, so there’s bound to be confusion between them. They are so identical that the debate on whether they’re the same has been raging for decades in Psychology. Too many burnout and depressive symptoms overlap.1Bianchi, R., Verkuilen, J., Schonfeld, I. S., Hakanen, J. J., Jansson-Fröjmark, M., Manzano-García, G., …

Delusional jealousy test

Othello's delusional jealousy

What is delusional jealousy? Delusional jealousy, also known as morbid jealousy or Othello syndrome, occurs when someone is convinced that their partner has committed infidelity despite having little or no evidence. A delusion is a false belief. Those suffering from delusional jealousy have persistent, excessive, irrational, and unfounded suspicions about their partner’s fidelity. Because they

Dating with intention: What does it even mean?

dating partner iceberg analogy

What is intentional dating? Intentional or conscious dating means dating with a goal and plan in mind. It’s being strategic about your dating efforts so that you can maximize your relational ROI. It’s about decreasing the odds of investing your time in the wrong people and increasing the odds of doing so in the right

Avoidant vs Narcissist: 25 Clear differences

avoidant vs narcissist

Narcissism and avoidance There’s a strong link between having an insecure attachment style and narcissism. A narcissist is a person who shows narcissistic traits. They may or may not have a

‘Why am I obsessed with someone I barely know?’

being obsessed with someone

Being obsessed with someone involves devoting a lot of resources to that person. Be it mental, emotional, financial, or temporal resources. You can’t stop thinking about them. You stalk them on the internet and/or in real life. You crave their attention and yearn to talk to them. You keep talking about them to your friends.