10 Signs your mother hates you

hateful mother

For many, it’s hard to imagine that a mother can hate her own child. This is because mothers typically invest more in their offspring than fathers. For this reason, a mother’s love is considered ‘divine’ and ‘pure’. However, there are exceptions to this norm. Some mothers do hate their children. Some mothers treat their children

4F Trauma personality types test: Fight, Flight, Freeze or Fawn?

trauma responses

Trauma and trauma response Trauma is typically caused by a survival and/or reproduction-threatening event that the mind sees as dangerous. While daily life problems cause mild levels of distress, a traumatic event typically significantly decreases our odds of survival and reproduction. Traumas are out-of-the-ordinary stressors that have low: Since our minds and bodies are built

Covert narcissist test

covert narcissism self-assessment

Narcissism is of two types: When we think of narcissists, we usually think of overt narcissists (ON). Overt narcissists openly display their narcissism. They’re usually extroverted, have high self-esteem, and are the loudest person in the room. They tend to be: Covert/vulnerable narcissists (CN) also desire to be superior to others, but they subtly accomplish

How to talk to someone who turns everything around

turning around

Before you learn how to talk to someone who turns things around, you must thoroughly understand the phenomenon of ‘turning things around’. There are a lot of things going on in this dynamic that need to be well understood. In this article, I’ll break down what happens when someone turns everything around on you and

Hands behind back body language

hands behind back woman

To interpret the ‘hands behind the back’ body language gesture, you should first look at its context. This is because it is one of those body language gestures that can have different meanings depending on the context and accompanying gestures. In this article, I’ll cover the possible meanings of this gesture, providing examples and accompanying

‘Why do I take things personally?’

taking things personally at work

We don’t take things personally. It just happens. I mean, we have little conscious control over it when it happens. Like many other thoughts and emotions, we can only deal with this psychological phenomenon post hoc. We can only manage it after it has happened. Why does it happen, though? We take things personally because

Hypervigilance test (25 Items self-test)

hypervigilant animal

Hypervigilance is derived from the Greek ‘hyper’, meaning ‘over’, and Latin ‘vigilantia’, meaning ‘wakefulness’. Hypervigilance is a mental state where a person scans their environment for potential threats. A hypervigilant person notices the slightest change in their environment and perceives it as a potential threat. Hypervigilance and anxiety go hand in hand. Anxiety stems from

‘Why do I feel like I’m going to die soon?’

near-death screaming

If you’ve ever experienced that sudden feeling that you’re going to die, you know how powerful that feeling is. It hits you like a brick and induces a sense of panic. Moments ago, you were going about your usual business. Suddenly, you’re thinking about your death and what will happen after you die. This feeling

Why do men cross their legs (Is it weird?)

man with crossed legs

Crossing the legs in body language conveys two meanings: 1. Defensiveness Crossing legs, like crossing arms, is a subconscious attempt to protect one’s vital organs. In crossing one’s arms, one tries to protect the vital organs of the upper body, like the heart and lungs. In crossing legs, one tries to cover the genitals. Our

How to manipulate a manipulator (4 Tactics)

manipulated

To manipulate someone means to make them do something that’s not in their best interests. Manipulations always incur some cost on the manipulated and a benefit to the manipulator. Manipulation is different from influence. You can influence someone to do something that is in their best interests. For instance, a marketing campaign that influences you